Wednesday, November 2, 2016

We're All Pretty Tense Right Now



Regardless of political affiliation, we’re all pretty tense right now, understandably so. News via every medium is a mess of innuendo and accusation. We turn on our television to watch some baseball or a favorite program, and our ears are bludgeoned with ads of grownups calling each other names that we would send our children to timeout for using. Facebook, ordinarily the repository of vacation pics and cat memes, has become the place where “friends” engage in bitter, partisan commentary. Even in the places where we usually try to be honest, like our families and our churches, we are so busy trying to be careful about what we say that we’re not saying much of anything to each other at all. So we’re tense and terse and snapping at people that, under normal circumstances, we like a whole lot.

We’re all holding our breath, praying that it will all be over soon. And praying that we won’t wake up The Morning After to find that our deepest fear is now our elected President.

How do we retain our sanity and our joy in these times? How do we maintain our friendships, even when we may be hoping that our friend’s deeply held hopes and dreams come crashing down around them on Election Day? How do we, who try our best to follow the One who is above all earthly governments, find places of faith and grace in these days as we pray and strive ardently for our own vision for our government?

Breathe. Right now, just pause and take a deep breath. Relax your shoulders.

Be kind to someone today, even if you feel pretty certain they’re voting for the scoundrel that you aren’t. Be especially kind to those folks.

Be kind to yourself. Turn off the television, or watch cable channels for the duration. Feel free to take a Facebook vacation, or unfollow people whose posts you find troubling. Instead, walk outside in this unseasonably warm autumn, look at God’s good creation, and breathe. 

Practice trusting God. I mean that literally. Trusting God is hard work, and it takes practice to get good at it. Sometimes I’m pretty good at it, and sometimes I need to go back to the batting cage or the books or The Book, or wherever it is that I can remind myself whose I am. 

On Election Day, we’re going to practice trusting God by praying. The sanctuary at First UMC will be open for prayer from 7 a.m. until 7 p.m. Feel free to come by before or after voting. We will also have prayer services at 7:15 a.m. and noon. We’ll gather together with whoever shows up, and we’ll lift our candidates and our concerns for our nation to God. There will likely be people praying side by side who have voted for different people. That will be exactly as it should be in God’s house.

An attorney who spends most of his times in courtrooms said to me a while back, “You know, politics isn’t like a lawsuit. In a lawsuit, there is a winner and a loser, and you never have to see each other again once it’s over. In politics, you still have to live next door to one another even after it’s done.” 

Yep.

So we’ll be together in God’s house on Election Day. And the day after that. And after that, and on and on, we’ll all be together in God’s house until that day comes when we all feast together, Republicans and Democrats and Independents and everyone else, in God’s heavenly kingdom. So we'd better keep practicing our manners for that big heavenly potluck, even now. Especially now.