Tuesday, June 25, 2013

On Being Tacky



Today, the Supreme Court issued an important ruling about the Voting Rights Act. This Act was hugely important in the days of the civil rights era, insuring equal access to the polls for a population that had been denied it for too long.  With the Supreme Court’s action, we are left to hope that things have changed enough that those protections are no longer necessary.  Surely, we think, we as a nation have moved beyond those days.

And yet . . . in another courthouse in another state, a racially-charged criminal case is going on as I type.  Was Trayvon Martin shot purely because he was a young black man in the wrong neighborhood, or was he shot by someone acting in self-defense? 

And yet . . . shooting targets that bleed and look suspiciously like our President were being displayed at a convention just last month.  Are the strong feelings that many bear towards Obama born out of racial hatred, or are they simply the dislike that any president bears?

And yet . . . a popular food celebrity who makes food the way that I think it ought to taste acknowledges having spoken disrespectfully of people of other races.  Paula Deen’s recent publicity demonstrates one version of growing up Southern.  She grew up in a climate in which it was somehow normal to use vulgar words for persons of a different race, or to tell jokes where the punchline lay in the ethnicity of a character.  When she acknowledged these things in open court, she lost a job and at least one sponsor. Her defenders have said, among other things, “Well, she can’t help it, it was where she was raised.”

I was raised in Georgia, too.  Although I may have been raised in the same state as Deen, I was raised in a different universe. I was taught at an early age that it was “tacky” to use the n-word, along with the d-word and the s-word. (Of course, I didn’t even know the f-word existed.) For a Southerner of my universe, there was nothing worse than being tacky. Ethnic jokes, although a little fuzzier, also fit along the spectrum of tackiness. I often forget to thank my parents for their wisdom in raising me they way that they did, and I am grateful for an upbringing that didn’t really seem that momentous at the time.

“Tacky,” of course, contains its own level of judgmentalism, even without racial connotations. Face it, none of us have perfected the art of looking at the world without filters of familiarity.  Those who are different from us are going to be judged by us differently, more harshly.

Have we evolved beyond the need for the Voting Rights Act?  I’d like to hope that the Supreme Court’s optimism about human nature is well placed.  However, if they are wrong, well then, their decision would just be . . . tacky.

Monday, June 3, 2013

Groundhogs and Grace

Yes, groundhogs can be pests.  On our 25+ acres at church, groundhog burrows have tripped up the tractor.  A few years ago, one persistent groundhog kept breaking into the church office and setting off the alarm.  Once, I stepped onto the back porch behind the office, inadvertently getting between a groundhog and its nest.  We both scared each other, and we each dashed to safety.

This morning, a baby groundhog was alone by the church.  One of our members grabbed a shovel and hoe, ready to dispatch it to the great groundhog burrow up above.  And then I came along.  There was something about that little groundhog, quivering in the shade of the church building that touched my heart.  “Not today,” I thought to myself.  I pretty much threw myself between the groundhog and the well-intentioned person as I started singing “All God’s critters got a place in the choir.” The baby groundhog skittered off to safety (probably driven by my singing voice), and I imagine that he's right now learning from his parents how to make more holes in our field and dig into our basement.

I’m not this sentimental about nuisance creatures all the time. If it had been a cockroach or a rat, my response would have been different. And there are some sparrows that are terrorizing our martin house at home that need to wing their way to heaven by whatever means possible.  Today, though, the sun was shining, and the little groundhog looked so scared as it cowered against the church building. And so a little groundhog grace was extended.

After all, none of us knows when we’ll find grace from an unexpected place.